Thursday, August 20, 2009

First Day Home



We were released from the hospital on Friday morning. It's nice to be in the hospital with nurses to help but I was so grateful to be back in my own house with Jim and the kids. Jim's company had their summer party in Park City the Friday we came home so he took Andrew and Ally up to that to give them something to do and me and Vanessa some time alone at home. It was nice to get some rest and to be able to enjoy time just me and her. I took the above picture in the nick of time since she decided to poop and pee all over her cute little outfit and me. Yes, I am having an adjustment period having a newborn again. Four and a half years is just too long to go without having a baby. But, thankfully she is a very good baby. All she wants to do is eat and sleep. It's great to have her here and home with us.

Vanessa is Surrounded by a Loving Family

Ally was so excited for her sister to finally join our family, as you can see by her smile. She couldn't wait to hold her and didn't want anyone to help her (luckily Aunt Dorothy and Aunt Melanie were right there, just in case).



Andrew was a little more skeptical about the whole baby thing. I just wanted one picture of him holding her but he kept saying no. We finally convince him to hold her while sitting on Jim's lap.



She was visited by so many of her grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and I wanted to get pictures of her with each and every one of them but while posting this realized I didn't get a picture of her with Aunt Kelly or Grandma Davis (oops)!







I am so glad that we are so blessed to have so many of our family living close by for these moments. We really miss the ones not here, Trish and Tim and Dave and Laurie when events like this take place. I am grateful that Vanessa and Andrew and Ally are surrounded by so many people who love them!

Vanessa Elise



Vanessa Elise joined our family on August 12. She weighed 7 lbs. 8 oz. and was 18 1/2 inches long, which for me is a small baby.

My contractions started around 1 a.m. but were few and far between. I really didn't think too much about it, other than I wasn't getting much sleep, until around 6 when they were coming a lot closer and were quite a bit stronger. I started debating back and forth about whether I should have Jim go to work or not. Since he works 45 minutes away, I finally decided after he was all showered and ready for work to ask him if he'd like to miss work that day. He seemed a little shocked but willing to take the day off. I showered and finally decided to call my mom around 8:15 to come watch Andrew and Ally. She showed up around an hour later and we were off. By the time we were getting to the hospital around 9:30 my contractions were very strong. After checking in with the receptionist she took me back to a room told me to put on a gown and a nurse would be right in to check me. We sat there waiting and waiting but no nurse. Finally after 15 minutes Jim told me he was going to find one. He went out to the nurses station and asked if someone could come check on me since my contractions were coming 'every one to two minutes.' The nurse finally nonchalantly wandered into my room, told me to lay back on the bed and checked me. She looked at me with big eyes and told me I was dilated to a five and 100% complete. She walked out to the hall and all of sudden four other nurses were with her. One was prepping stuff for the baby, one was getting supplies, one was hooking me up to an IV, another was asking me questions, in between contractions and me death gripping the bed rail because the contractions were so strong. They kept telling me the anesthesiologist was finishing up with another epidural and would be right in. Finally, my knight in shining armor came in to rescue me from the pain. He got my epidural in me and nothing. I was still feeling every contraction and wanting to die. (I know I sound like a huge baby right now because many women have and still continue to have babies without any drugs and I really, truly admire them. I don't know how they did and continue to do it.) The anesthesiologist came to check how I was doing and decided to give me a boost right into the line. Still no help. About five minutes later I could still feel the contractions but they weren't lasting as long. Next walked in the doctor. Luckily by the time I was starting to push my friend the epidural kicked in. I only had to push three times and little Vanessa was born at 11:01 a.m. It was a very quick delivery (the receptionist told me if I ever have another baby, I better head for the hospital with my first contraction) and thankfully Vanessa was healthy. They left her with me and Jim for a while in our room and she just kept fussing. She was acting like she was hungry. Jim went and got the nurse and off they went to the nursery where she ate a full ounce. The nurses told Jim that it is very rare for a baby to eat like that so quickly after being born.

The only other bad thing about the quick delivery was that I tested positive for Strep B and since she came so quickly I only had the penicillin for 30 minutes when you are supposed to have it for four hours. They couldn't get Vanessa's blood to draw (you should see her poor heels and hands covered with prick marks and bruises) so they had to try later in the day. Once they finally tested her blood her white blood cell count was high so she had to receive shots of antibiotics for 48 hours after being born. The good news is that she tested normal on the day of check out so we could bring her home. She is such a beautiful baby and I am so glad to have her finally join our family. She is truly a blessing!!

Oquirrh Mountain Temple Open House


When your four year old comes to you during sharing time about the Draper temple open house and tells you she really wants to go to the temple, you do everything you can to make sure you go to the next temple open house; I was really glad the next one was so soon after. The night started out a little crazy with fits from both of the kids about what we were eating, Dad and Mom getting ornery because of the fits, etc., etc. As soon as we got to the temple everyone's moods changed. It was so fun to see the temple through the kids eyes and get to explain to them different things about the temple. It made it even better 'cause I could explain it in a personal way since my grandpa who passed away two years ago was never baptized and we could tell them how the work will be done for him. After the tour and cookies we went out for some pictures (Ally took the pic of me and Jim, which I have to say, turned out much better than I thought it would) and then stopped for ice cream on the way home. It was a wonderful way to spend time together as a family.








Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Baby Shower


My wonderful friends Camilla and Stacie and Kelly and my mom decided against all my pleadings and cries of NO to give me a baby shower. I felt a little stupid having one just because I already have two kids and my most recent was a girl. I caved (with really no choice) and I have to say it was a lot of fun. I really enjoyed sitting and chatting with all my great friends and family who were able to come and help me celebrate our new addition. Thanks everybody!!

Long Time Friends

A while back (yes quite a while since I have been such a blog slacker) we got together with some long time family friends. We all became friends way back when we were first married (except for Ellison and Kelly) and all the husbands and Kelly worked at Big Planet together. We did quite a bit together back then...dates, a couple of trips, in fact Jim and I went on Ellison and Kelly's first date with them. Even after we all had our firsts we would get together now and then for dinner, etc. Then Wayne and Kelly decided to move to California and ruin all the fun (just kidding guys). We hadn't seen them since Andrew was six months old but got the great opportunity to get together for a family dinner here out our house while Wayne and Kelly were here visiting family. It was so much fun to enjoy the time together as adults and watch all the kids play and get along like they have known each other all along. In fact, Sydney quickly became Ally's best friend. It was so much fun getting together and getting to enjoy the wonderful friendships we have. Hopefully we'll get to do it again before another six years go by but for now, we will just keep up by blogs. The wonderful things that come with technology!

She Truly Marches to the Beat of Her Own Drum

For those of you who know Ally, you will already know the truth behind this post. She is her own personality and really doesn't care what other people think about her. As her mom (and someone who cares way to much about what others think of me) I really hope she stays that way and doesn't let people and their opinions influence her or her choices in life. One night after she was told (one too many times I'm sure) to go get her pajamas on she came out in a pajama top and tights. She wouldn't budge and change even after being told that tights were not pajamas. I figured you pick your battles and it really wasn't going to hurt her to wear tights to bed so I just grabbed the camera and took some pictures to one day show her just how goofy she truly was.



Another day she came walking into our front room wearing my oven mitts as flippers. These have now become one of her 'feet attire.' Another battle I chose to not fight and just take pictures instead...



She is so much fun to have around. Not a day goes by that she doesn't say or do at least one thing that has us laughing. I am so grateful she is in our family and my life!!
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